My daughter, Jenny, recently returned from living in Italy and was faced with the task of sorting through boxes from her college years. She had to decide what still held meaning for her and what she was ready to let go.
Making decisions about possessions that represent your life is difficult. You wonder where to start. What is the reasoning process to use?
Then you can get bogged down with the question, “If I don’t keep it, what should I do with it?” The object represents history, or still has a useful life.
One strategy to use when the task seems overwhelming is to turn the process around. Rather than looking at what to get rid of and how, start by looking for treasures.
Ask yourself:
- What can I not bear to live without?
- Does anything give an emotional tug that holds good memories?
- What feeds my soul because it is of such great beauty?
Set aside these treasured items; these are “the keepers!”
All that remains is to determine what you use on a regular basis or you must keep to stay out of jail. The rest can go. Isn’t that a freeing thought?
Remember, you don’t have to keep inherited items or gifts if they do not hold meaning for you! Let someone else cherish those.
Extreme Downsizing… So Tempting!
Monday, June 28th, 2010I had just returned from a week’s vacation in Arizona and was feeling footloose and fancy free. Then I read Sean Ogle’s guest blog on Unclutterer entitled “Less stuff, more adventure”. It brought back memories of my first year of marriage to my Army Lieutenant when we could fit everything we owned – literally!- in the back of a Chevy Vega.
Tiger Balm Garden, Hong Kong
Sean went a step farther and sold the car! Now he is a world traveler living out of a backpack. He was writing from Bangkok, Thailand.
Obviously, Sean is not living in a tent and he must have a bank account he is drawing from. He is making his living with freelance writing and other online ventures. When not punching a computer keypad, he is meeting the Thai people, learning their culture and enjoying the bustle of a very cosmopolitan city. Read Sean’s article here. Very motivating to lose the stuff that ties us down!
Did you visit the Tiger Balm Garden yet, Sean? Jeff and I were there in 1976, great place to celebrate the Bicentennial. Congrats on taking the steps to follow your dream!
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