My daughter, Jenny, recently returned from living in Italy and was faced with the task of sorting through boxes from her college years. She had to decide what still held meaning for her and what she was ready to let go.
Making decisions about possessions that represent your life is difficult. You wonder where to start. What is the reasoning process to use?
Then you can get bogged down with the question, “If I don’t keep it, what should I do with it?” The object represents history, or still has a useful life.
One strategy to use when the task seems overwhelming is to turn the process around. Rather than looking at what to get rid of and how, start by looking for treasures.
Ask yourself:
- What can I not bear to live without?
- Does anything give an emotional tug that holds good memories?
- What feeds my soul because it is of such great beauty?
Set aside these treasured items; these are “the keepers!”
All that remains is to determine what you use on a regular basis or you must keep to stay out of jail. The rest can go. Isn’t that a freeing thought?
Remember, you don’t have to keep inherited items or gifts if they do not hold meaning for you! Let someone else cherish those.
Downsizing: The 100 Thing Challenge, Dream or Nightmare?
Wednesday, December 16th, 2009Well, Dave Bruno’s personal 100 Thing Challenge timed out on his birthday this past November. This is how he described his intent last summer in his blog, aguynameddave:
Dave writes that he wants to distance himself from rampant American consumerism. His list of the 100 things he is keeping is an interesting read. Dave is a hiker, surfer, writer, and Christian. I don’t know Dave, but I can tell a lot about him from his list.
In an interview with Time.com, Dave explains what prompted this movement.
Do you feel the same? Are you ready to downsize? Does the thought of reducing your belongings to only 100 things inspire you or make you break out in a cold sweat? I honestly don’t know if I want to live at quite that level of minimalism. However, I believe that a return to the basics would be a great side benefit of our recent economic downturn here in the U.S.
Possessions can truly own us as we struggle to clean, maintain, replace, and endlessly upgrade the “stuff.” Shedding a few extra pounds of belongings can be very freeing! I have experienced that in my own life, and watched the look of joy on client’s faces when they feel that themselves.
So, in the spirit of congratulating Dave on his courageous journey, here are a few suggestions to help us all pare down gradually.
Three years ago, my husband and I moved downtown to a condo that is 40% smaller than our old home. The process of letting go of things was not an easy one. We are glad we persisted. Our time spent in maintenance is now minimal. We walk to sporting events, movies, and restaurants (maybe even a casino soon, though I sincerely hope not!) We are thoroughly enjoying getting back to basics!
Perhaps you will be inspired by this quote from a true minimalist. “I had three chairs in my house: one for solitude, two for friendship, three for society.” – Henry David Thoreau, the ultimate downsizer.
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